Christmas Comes To Us In The Darkest of Days

Literally, Christmas comes on the ninth darkest day of the year. Winter Solstice in Fort Wayne will be Wednesday, December 21st at 5:44am – the shortest day of the year, with the least sunlight and the most darkness.

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We make much of the Christmas season, barely waiting until Thanksgiving is over to break  out the decorations and holiday music. We wish people merriment and and happiness during the Christmas, which is great – but… the original Christmas story is also full of sorrow, grief, and darkness. Which is one of the reasons we celebrate it during the first week of the winter solstice. It’s also why we shouldn’t skip the season of Advent.

What is the season of Advent? The early church marked out the four Sundays leading up to Christmas for remembering the second coming of Christ to the world, as a way to prepare us to properly remember the first coming of Christ to Bethlehem. Advent is Latin for “to come” or “to arrive” –  it reminds us that Christ came at Christmas, Christ comes to each of us now by his Spirit, and someday he will come again to establish peace on earth.

And Advent helps us keep the enduring and fascinating story of Christ in perspective – not everything is rosy and cheery in it. When Christ came to Israel in the first century, it was a messy and painful season for their generation. Like us, they are yearning for someone to establish peace on earth and in our hearts.

We read in the gospel according to Mark that early one dark morning Jesus retreated up the rocky slopes of the mountains that ring the Sea of Galilee. On the beaches the previous day he had been nearly crushed by the crowds seeking healing. The day before that he had provoked murderous threats from the power-brokers of the region because of his healings. The coming of Christ, the coming of light into darkness, isn’t always the easiest season to endure.

On that mountainside Jesus called twelve disciples to him that he wanted to send out into the nation to preach the gospel of God’s kingdom and to drive out demons by the power of God’s spirit. This was why Christ came to Israel, this is what the first Christmas was for: light coming into the darkness, establishing peace in the world.

This is a glimpse of what Jesus does now, in every generation: calling men and women to be with him, that he might then send them out to proclaim good news and deliver people from evil. This is how the Spirit of Christmas lives on in the darkness: not just wishing merriment, but working for peace every day of the year by the power of Christ.

Like the church today, those twelve disciples called by Jesus to serve as apostles (sent ones) were men of questionable character or of no account. Simon Peter was impulsive and braggadicio, James and John were brothers with a fiery, vengeful temperment, Andrew and Philip were excitable, Bartholomew was a good guy, Matthew had been a traitorous tax-collector, Thomas was a doubter, Simon was a violent political activist (terrorist), James and Thaddeus stayed in the background, and Judas Iscariot would betray Jesus with good intentions and noble ambitions.

Scene 07/53 Exterior Galilee Riverside; Jesus (DIOGO MORCALDO) is going to die and tells Peter (DARWIN SHAW) and the other disciples this not the end.

The church still has disciples like this, men and women who in the name of Christ unveil their best and worst sides. But through Christ, in being sent by him to our communities with the power of the gospel to heal and establish peace, we are transformed too. Christmas becomes a reminder that Christ became like us, that we might become a peacemaker like him.

As we prepare to celebrate the Advent of Christ at Christmas (which coincides with the lengthening of daylight and shortening of nighttime), may you be called and sent by God to family and friends with the presence of Christ. It is Christ who delivers from darkness and who fills us with light – may we, through being present with Christ, be sent to bring peace to those that are ready for the light to dawn in their soul earlier and earlier each morning.

Be the light, be a peacemaker, be Christmas.

When You Being You Makes Things Worse…

They say that most people’s weaknesses are their strengths used to excess. Someone who is loyal can also be stubborn, someone who is patient is a procrastinator, someone who is kind is taken advantage of. Sometimes our weaknesses are not the problems, but rather our strengths.

There are times when you are being you, and you being you is the best thing for the people around you and the situations you are in. And then all of a sudden, you being you makes things worse! One minute they love your new ideas, the next they get annoyed because you’re always changing stuff. One day they love that you are chatty and friendly, the next they are frustrated that there’s no peace and quiet in the office. One week they like it because you are productive and get stuff done, the next week they’re exhausted and grimace when you rally them to get more stuff done.

Jesus was sometimes his own worst enemy. In the gospel of Mark  we read a story where Jesus has done too much good, and now things are falling apart. The emerging plot to kill Jesus (because of his provocative healings) by the Pharisees and King Herod’s men caused Jesus to flee the village and head to the lake to cool off. But, the crowds found him there, overwhelmed him, driving Jesus into a boat to avoid getting crushed. So many people had been healed, and so many more still needed it.

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Imagine the chaos, the cries for help, the pleading and begging. And, on top of that, there were plenty of people with impure spirits falling down on the ground screaming out to Jesus in deranged voices, “You are the Son of God!” And Jesus is commanding them to shut up. Jesus being Jesus is seeming to make things worse.

Jesus can relate to your moments of self-frustration – when you being you seems to work for people one minute, and then the next you’re still being the same you but making things worse. Like Jesus, we are probably right that we need to pull away for a bit, figure out what’s going on, and what we’re doing to make things worse. But Jesus pulled away in order to get back into the fray. He withdrew in weakness to return strengthened.

Have you been in a place where you being you is making things worse? Sometimes personal success is our worst enemy. Sometimes lack of self-awareness harms us. Sometimes denial of our past hurts undermines the use of our strengths. Sometimes refusing to forgive turns our strengths into weaknesses. Sometimes lack of boundaries makes things worse.

We think of Jesus always being perfect, but he was fully human. Christmas reminds us of the radical way God wants to be present to people – he becomes like one of us so that we may become like him. What’s it mean to be like God? To love. Which is why Jesus always teaches us to forgive, because love covers over a multitude of wrongs. When you being you makes things worse, repent and forgive. When things get crazy, get away in order to come back stronger in love.

place-of-rest-2What do you need to do to withdraw, like Jesus? Be home alone? Get outdoors for a brisk walk? Go out to eat with a trusted friend? Journal? Sing? Cry? Play? Sleep? Pray? Count your blessings? Go to church? Volunteer in your community? Get counseling? Read a good book?

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Take a break so that you can take stock of what you’re doing to make it worse and recalibrate your strengths so that you can be the loving, healing, stronger person God is helping you become.

The Courage To Do Good Anyway

Now more than ever we need to find the courage to do more good in our country. Sometimes we get weary of doing good. It can become easier to stay seated as things deteriorate. It’s easy to turn away and give up. It’s tough to keep standing up to do good. Especially when it’ll cost you. But with the way things are these days, together we need to keep finding the courage to do good anyway.

We see in the gospel according to Mark that Jesus didn’t shy away from doing good, even when it cost him. In one case, when Jesus restored the shriveled hand of a man in a synagogue on the Sabbath, the religious leaders started plotting how to kill Jesus.

withered-handThere was immense social pressure on Jesus to not heal this man on the Sabbath in the synagogue. Jesus challenged them anyway: “‘Which is lawful on the Sabbath: to do good or to do evil, to save life or to kill?’ But they remained silent.” It made Jesus “angry and deeply distressed” to watch people stubbornly sit on the sidelines and not care enough.

We have to decide ahead of time: am I going to do good and save more lives no matter if those around me do nothing?

Think about what this means for your life at home, with family and friends, with neighbors and coworkers, fellow citizens and strangers. To listen, to share, to respond to lies with truth, to be vulnerable, to resist evil, to forgive, to give compassion,  to walk with – this is more than just being polite and nice, this is doing good that saves, heals, and rescues.

We can’t have courage out in the world if we won’t show it at home.

The more material comforts we accumulate, the more power and social prestige we attain, the more advancements and accolades we desire, the greater the temptation we will avoid doing good that requires courage. We’ll do the good that fits within our schedule or career track, but we’ll stay seated and silent when it comes to doing good that could get us misunderstood, mocked, or plotted against.

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What if Jesus is stirring in you a desire to stand up and do more good that saves more lives in our community?

Jesus knew that his healing of the man with the shriveled hand would get him in trouble with the religious and political leaders. The man with the shriveled hand got healed, but he also may have gotten a new set of hardships. But: what’s the point of doing good? To stay out of trouble? Or: to save life and bring healing, in the way of Jesus, to those who are struggling?

Jesus knew his mission: to embody the good news of God through his wise words and healing actions. This mission changed the lives of individual men and women, but also challenged the sinful structures of society – religious, economic, political, and militarily (they’re always intertwined). So it is for Jesus followers still today.

This poem was found in the walls of Mother Teresa’s home in Calcutta, where she daily demonstrated courage to care for the least of these in her country while challenging the system. May it inspire you to join Jesus in the restoration of the shriveled hands and stubborn hearts of our country.

mother_teresa_photos-6“People are often unreasonable, irrational, and self-centered.
Forgive them anyway.
If you are kind, people may accuse you of selfish, ulterior motives.
Be kind anyway.

If you are successful, you will win some unfaithful friends and some genuine enemies.
Succeed anyway.
If you are honest and sincere people may deceive you.
Be honest and sincere anyway.

What you spend years creating, others could destroy overnight.
Create anyway.
If you find serenity and happiness, some may be jealous.
Be happy anyway.

The good you do today, will often be forgotten.
Do good anyway.
Give the best you have, and it will never be enough.
Give your best anyway.

In the final analysis, it is between you and God.
It was never between you and them anyway.”

 

May Christ grant you the courage to do what is good, everyday.