United We Stand, Divided We Fall

In this Advent season of peace, let’s be the ones to light the way, let’s stand with people and cultivate as much common ground as we can. It’s easy to focus on our differences, it can be darkly energizing to polarize our positions – but that will be our downfall.

What can the lights of peace look like in our world? Does peace mean the absence of violence? If so, can there ever be peace on earth? But what if we can choose a Christmas peace that illuminates and unites amidst the dark turbulence in our homes, our hearts, our nation?

What if being at peace was less about naively ignoring what is destructive around us, and instead, staring it straight in the face, trusting instead of despairing that even now the Jesus of Christmas is working for peace to prevail among us?

dont-give-up-quote-1As we walk through the gospel of Jesus Christ according to Mark in the New Testament, we read a fascinating story where Jesus is misunderstood by his own family– his actions of peacemaking are interpreted as causing dark demonic chaos. Just when you think you’ve struggled with being misunderstood!

In this story Jesus has once again entered a home with his disciples to share a meal together with the host. When the crowds realized he is in town, they swarm the home such that no one could dine. Jesus adjusts, stands, and turns the chaotic moment into a teachable one about the way God works in the world.

But Jesus’ family, and the teachers of the law from Jerusalem believe that Jesus must be filled with a divisive, impure spirit, maybe even a demon – possibly Satan himself! How else to account for the chaos Jesus causes when he comes into town? It’s interesting isn’t it, tragic even, how we can choose to interpret stuff.

If Jesus is really filled by an impure spirit, what advantage would he gain by casting other impure spirits into the abyss? Jesus calls the misunderstanders in close and then uses logic to dismantle their slanderous accusations.  He teaches, “If a house is divided against itself, that house cannot stand. And if Satan opposes himself and is divided, he cannot stand; his end has come. In fact, no one can enter a strong man’s house without first tying him up. Then he can plunder the strong man’s house.”

Christmas reminds us of Jesus coming to tie up the evil one who was dividing and plundering the people of Israel. The season of Advent reminds us that Jesus will come again to finish what he started with the evil one in the world: Satan’s end will come.

dont-give-up-1So don’t give up on peacemaking. Despair divides.

Christmas teaches us that peacemaking is difficult, it means standing up to evil, not running away from it, it means forging unity among those who misunderstand, and it means patiently explaining yourself and proving yourself through your actions.

To make peace we will need to forgive all those who sin against us and every slander they’ve ever uttered, like Christ will do for us when he returns. Bitterness divides.

When Jesus comes again, there will be those who will see the just and merciful peacemaking work he’s done and accuse him of chaos-making, of causing dark evil, to be in league with the devil. There is nothing Jesus can do for them – if they see the Holy Spirit in him and call it demonic, they don’t want Jesus’ terms of peace. Yet….

Jesus mother, brothers and sisters eventually came to recognize him as the Lord of Israel and the whole world. It took awhile though for them to see the light and join God’s will to make peace. Reconciliation takes patience, persevering kindness, healing honesty, and sacrificial grace.

don't give up final posterSo if you’re feeling misunderstood, if it seems like chaos is creeping in on your life, if this season of your life isn’t turning out how you thought, don’t give up on being a peacemaker. Keep cultivating more common ground!

Stand by the power of Christmas: that same spirit of Jesus comes still to light our way and unite us, so don’t give up on him, others, or yourself.

 

When You Can’t Believe, Let Your Friends Faith Carry You

Let’s face it, believing in God isn’t always easy. Especially when you or those you love are in pain, and there are a mounting pile of unanswered prayers. It doesn’t help that we can’t see, hear, or hold onto God either.

It’s unique really, in our age, to be in a position to doubt the divine like we do. In the 7,000+ years of recorded history, humanity has been deeply religious, our lives oriented around the will and whims of the heavenly beings. Only in the past few hundred years have we been able to construct a reality where it’s plausible to doubt the existence or the effect of gods/God. It’s harder to believe in God then it used to be.

When my brother Matt was killed in by a drunk driver, you can probably imagine how angry at God I became for letting this happen. This was back in 2001, right after Christmas, in my late 20’s. I’d been a pastor for a few years, grown up in the church my dad pastored, and had gone to Christian school’s most of my life. For all my knowledge and love of God, I was decimated by this death. What kind of God lets this stuff happen? It’s hard to believe in God when life takes excruciating turns.

Looking back fifteen years later, I can see that at times it was my friends faith in God that carried me through those dark days, weeks, months, years. Sometimes you need your family and friends to believe for you. Sometimes the only way towards healing and hope is for your friends to hold on to faith on your behalf for awhile.

We see this in a New Testament story, retold by Mark in his gospel about Jesus Christ. paralytic-lowered-to-jesusIn this story a paralyzed man is lowered into Jesus’ presence through a hole cut in the roof; it is the attempt of friends to get their friend healed amidst the crowds amassed around the house where Christ is preaching. An astonished Jesus, wiping dust off his face and standing up as the paralyzed man comes down, looks up at the friends and sees their faith. He remarks, “Son, your sins are forgiven.” And then, to make a short story shorter, Jesus heals him.

Isn’t that fascinating? It’s the faith of the friends who carried the paralyzed man that made this moment possible. Maybe the paralyzed man protested the whole way there, pointing out the futility of their efforts, doubting God and depressed about his situation. But his friends didn’t give up on him. Or Jesus.

Are you feeling paralyzed? Are you doubting God’s existence, his goodness, his relevance? Are you wondering if your sins are forgivable? Are you wounded from the sins done to you? It may be that you need to let loving friends come around and carry you for awhile to get to a place of forgiveness and healing.

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Maybe you’re in a dark place, kind of like where I was after my brother was killed, and you’re not sure what to do next, not sure what to believe anymore. If you have any strength left to pray, pray for God to send you a friend who can believe for you, and help you find healing and hope again. And if you don’t know if you can pray that prayer, let me know if it’s okay if I pray it for you.

I don’t know what’s next for you, but following the forgiveness and healing of the paralyzed man, the people were amazed and praised God, saying “We have never seen anything like this!” It reminds me of the old hymn Amazing Grace“Amazing grace, how sweet the sound, that saved a wretch like me; I once was lost, but now am found, was blind, but now I see.” May amazing grace find you and the faith of your friends carry you – not because you believe in it or deserve it, but because you are loved.

And if you’re the friend with faith, stay faithful.

Who Is Scared Of You?

We all try to be nice people. But what if being nice to everyone isn’t enough. What if more than niceness is needed in our world? What if you should be scary too?

One of the early stories of Jesus in the gospel (according to Mark), Jesus goes into the synagogue on the Sabbath to teach. This is a normal thing that rabbi’s do on the day of rest. It’s always a nice event for the community. But in this story Jesus isn’t just a nice rabbi, he is scary.

the-gospel-of-markJesus is teaching about the kingdom of God, exegeting the Law, Psalms and Prophets, opening up the minds of the people there that they might repent of their sins and return to the Lord their true king. And this teaching scares the devil out of one of the men. “What do you want with us, Jesus of Nazareth? Have you come to destroy us? I know who you are – THE HOLY ONE OF GOD!!!!!!”

We always imagine Jesus as nice, maybe a polite introvert, calmly instructing people on how to be nice. But I’ll bet Jesus was deeply moved by the plight and oppression of his people, his heart was broken by the sins that wrecked minds and broke souls.

From this anger, this powerful love, this desire for their healing, he taught. And it stirred up fear in the impure spirits, they got scared. And Jesus didn’t let up on them: “Be quiet” said Jesus sternly. “COME OUT OF HIM!” The impure spirit shook the man violently and came out of him with a shriek.”

candleWhat’s the darkness that you hate? What’s the sins in our community that anger you? What’s wrong with our world that you want deeply to fix? Jesus is against it even more than we are. In fact, you could say that he’s the one who ignites our desire for justice and mercy.

So with the evil in the world that we are called to resist, will we scare those spirits of torment, will they shriek at our presence, or will we just keep on being nice?

Jesus was teaching the gospel of the kingdom of God, calling his people to repent and believe the good news of God’s impending arrival as their king. Jesus was compelling his people to straighten up, get right with God and each other, clean up their act and their community. Jesus knew that how a community treats the least of these reveals the condition of their soul.

widows-and-orphansWhen you overlook the widows and orphans, when the poverty of the majority is ignored by the powerful minority, that community is sick and under judgment. Jesus came to drive out the spirits that drive us to madness – and that comes from deep love and hope, not from being nice.

We’re nice as a way to be polite, and nice is good when we’re with strangers and we want to extend social graces and foster good will. But nice is the wrong thing to do when you’re called to love someone, when you’re called to sacrifice, when you’re called to look darkness in the face and stare it down.

Be more than nice to those enslaved by sin, and be like Jesus when it comes to confronting the powers of evil.

Does being nice scare evil? Does Jesus? Maybe we should quit trying to be nice as a way to avoid the pain of others. Instead, join a community that works to embody the gospel of Jesus, his hope, his works of healing, his confrontation of darkness with the light of truth.